Caitlin, a former residential care worker turned foster carer, finds joy in the small moments of trust and connection as she nurtures three siblings with the strong support of MacKillop.
“It’s the tiny things,” Caitlin says.
“The first hug that lets you know you’ve earned their trust; when they ask you to sit by their bed and tell you about their day; or when they choose to hang out with you in the lounge. Those are the magical moments - and I write each of them down.”
Caitlin is a foster carer with MacKillop, caring for three siblings. But her journey with MacKillop began when she was studying youth work and did a work placement.
“I fell in love instantly. The Sanctuary model, the values, the way my team in the east of Melbourne felt like a family - everyone pitched in. I knew I was exactly where I was meant to be.”
After seven years as a residential care supervisor, Caitlin made the difficult decision to resign, so she could become a foster carer.
Having grown up in residential care herself, Caitlin explains, “I used to listen to audiobooks about foster care on repeat while driving to work. I dreamed of having a big family and giving back to kids who didn’t have a stable home life.”
Caitlin continues to sing the praises of MacKillop, now she is supported by them as a foster carer.
“MacKillop don’t just support me - they surround me with community. Reflective practice, peer connection, outings for the kids - it’s a village, and we’re never alone.”
The children are thriving - attending school, learning life skills, and reconnecting with family.
“We do a lot of family connection. Their older sister comes over for dinner now. We talk about mum and dad all the time.”
Caitlin’s advice to potential foster carers is, “It’s a journey. There are tears and laughter, ups and downs. Be realistic. Trauma and disability bring challenges. But if you trust the process and let the community in, you’ll witness magic. I’ll never regret the decision to become a foster carer.”
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